This blog piece is a brief outline of what I do in an average week. By brief I don’t mean I’m omitting some crazy party, long country walk or evenings with friends, I haven’t had energy for that in years. I have just left out the bits where I take medication, the headaches, struggle to get myself in and out the shower, dressed, and the awful insomnia I suffer from. This week I haven’t had the energy to read more than a short magazine article, or even iron my clothes. Every last piece of energy I have is stored up for the important stuff like work and looking after the kitty (who provides endless cuddles throughout). Writing this piece has made me realise just how little I actually do in my week. My week should consist of more university work at least, but it doesn’t. I wish it involved cooking yummy dinners, having tea and cake with friends in the evenings and taking pride in my home. I could go on, so here it is in all of its glory, my week with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue/ME:
Leaving my wife at home with a hangover, I headed to a local cafe I’d never been to before to try and get some study time in. With a bacon sandwich, a free WiFi connection and a few cups of tea I managed to write a few hundred words of an essay and get a good start on research. Feeling pretty mentally exhausted I headed home after a couple of hours and tried not to feel guilty about my daily nap as I’d had a productive morning.
My long day at work always worries me a little, but I had a productive one. Feeling utterly wiped out long before 5pm I slowly made my way home, and as usual, had headed straight for bed. There was no way I would be able to do anything else that evening unless I slept. Two hours later I got up, had dinner and had my daily struggle with my shower. Another night of struggling to get to sleep followed.
After a few hours of broken sleep I woke feeling rough, swollen glands, a sore throat and chest. I spent the day worrying that I was getting ‘normal’ ill on top of the usual fun stuff. Feeling super poorly by the time I woke from my post work nap I spent the evening in my pyjamas (again as usual) dosed up and knocking back the vitamins in a bid to stop the inevitable.
After quite a few hours of sleep (it’s always a bad sign when I actually get some shut eye) I woke late on my day off, and felt like a virus had really taken over my already tired body. After calling mom to wish her a Happy Birthday, I headed back to bed with a cop of tea and spent the day there, with no appetite, feeling weak, sore and afraid of how exhausted I felt. With no energy to cook, I ended up eating take away for dinner, probably not the best option so I blitzed up a smoothie with fruit juice, berries, banana and natural yoghurt later in the evening. Showering was a struggle but I felt much better after a good scrub.
After a rough night’s sleep it was off to work, still armed with my swollen glands and dodgy chest and throat. Work is usually a good laugh but I had slightly too much fun which resulted in a funny turn and feeling like I was about to pass out. After struggling home it was straight off for my rest which found me sleeping for over three hours, long even by my standards. But I awoke in pain, struggling to swallow, my chest hurting and with a locked jaw. My jaw continued to keep locking throughout the evening and night and woke me up with the pain. Still without he energy to cook, I finished yesterday’s take away for dinner.
Feeling better in myself today, but in quite a lot of pain, after work I took a diversion home and was exhausted beyond words half way back. I could barely get out of my rain soaked clothes on getting home and headed straight for the usual; bed. I fell asleep with the cat on my side and woke up on my own but in awful pain, and couldn’t get back to sleep. After a long chat with my parents, an evening dosed up in front of the TV followed before I decided to write this blog.
Well, I haven’t got there yet, but I’m hoping for a lie in, lots of uni work, endless cups of tea and kitty cuddles, and of course, a good nap.